I sent some cabbage dishes to my previously cabbage-phobic friend with a note that I required photographic evidence that he took at least one bite of each dish. And, as I suspected he would, he posted a well-done video of his foray into cabbage consumption. I just wasn't sure of the verdict.
I was very pleased to see him not only take mulitple bites of each - gallo pinto-stuffed cabbage rolls and kimchi - but to declare that it was tasty. Wow. YOU did it!